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See how real connections begin.

Watch real-world approach videos with honest breakdowns and see exactly how conversations begin, develop, and sometimes fail.

Hi, I’m Bart.

I’m a software engineer who has been studying dating, communication, and relationships since 2012.

I use an engineering mindset to understand real interactions. Here I share what worked, what failed, and what I learned along the way.

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